I bumped with somebody that I never known when he passed. “Oh, excuse me” that was my reaction. And he said, “Excuse me, too. I do not see you.” Me and that unknown people applies polite action each other. After that we just parted and said goodbye.

But another story is going on in the house, let see how we treat those who we love, old and young. On that day, when I was cooking for dinner, my son stood silently beside me. When I turned, I almost knocked my son down. “Move!!” I said angrily. And she went, her heart may be broken. I didn’t realize how rough my words to him.

As I lay in bed for sleep, with a fine word to my heart the Lord spoke to me, “When you’re dealing with strange people, you use the ethical propriety and polite words, but with your son who you love them very much, seems you treat them arbitrarily. Just look to the kitchen floor, you’ll find some flowers near the door. These flowers colored pink, yellow, and blue have been picked by your son. Your son stood silently near you for surprise, and you don’t even see her wet eyes at the time. ”

Immediately I felt ashamed, and now my tears began to drip. And then slowly I went to my son room and knelt at his bedside, “Wake up my son …” I said. “Is These flowers you picked for me? “. She smiled,” I found it fell from the tree” “and I took these flowers because they are beautiful like my mother. I know you will love it, especially the blue.” “Son, I’m so sorry that has been rough on you. I should not yelling to you like that my lovely son.” I said.

My little girl said, “Oh, Mom, it’s okay. I still love you.” I also replied, “Son, I love you too, and I really like these flowers, especially the blue.”

Good Happy Family must support their children

Let us think, we involve ourselves more deeply to our work than our own families, an investment that would not be wise, isn’t it? So, you understand what purpose of the story above? And do you know what the word FAMILY now?

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If you are confused, please read the question above. If you’re observant, you’ll know that the more important is the second sentence that is the children who feel loved by his parents. but if the parents feel their son love them, the child not necessarily feel being loved isn’t it? But if children feel loved by his parents, parents certainly loved their children.

Strangely, the problems we found are often from because the children feel unloved, not accepted by his parents. But his parent’s always said that they really love his son.Sometimes you may ask yourself, then why does your son feel unloved? How could it happen like that? You must believe it, a case or something like this could happen and many things can happen to you. And in many cases, parents do not know what’s wrong with them and how to fix it.

You need to know that children with problems in life such as getting into fights, drugs, unconfident, can not socialize, easy to despair, not daring to try and many other child problems, the source is often because he does not feel being loved or accepted by the closest people especially their parents.

There are many problems that occur because of communication between parents and son is not well established. Ways and methods of good communication between parents and son is crucial for the development of the child, one of them is to understanding your son love habitude.

this picture shows how you son being loved and love his parents

That’s what often happens between parent and son who have a different love Habitude. They will not understand each other what they mean and ultimately only a short conversation, because each felt it was useless to talk, anyway they will not get it what they mean.

A Son’s love habitude is an appropriate means of communication with your son so that he really felt being loved. The key here is really because the child knows his parents love him but still they do not really feel being loved.

Ok, so now you want to know the love habitude is what is this? There are 5 habitude of love, each person has a dominant love habitude, while others love habitude just support this.

1. Physical Touch: physical touch such as hugs, kisses on the cheek, play that involves physical touch and others.
2. Supporting words: positive words and support your son.
3. Quality time: to do activities together with children without another person.
4. Prize: favorite gifts.
5. Services: serving the needs of children is important to him.

To more deeply about the kinds of language of love, I will explain this love language, one by one in more detail in my next blog.

When you know your child’s love habitude, you can communicate in accordance with the habitude of love and your child will really feel loved. Children who feel loved will enhance self esteem, confidence has increased, more cheerful children and their relationship with their parents far more qualified. Is it that all we want?

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First, believe their ability. Show that you believe in their abilities, then it will be a strong foundation in the formation of child creativity. For example, if a child had a creativity to paint grass with blue color, instead of showing disapproval, better ask and give positive comments. This will stimulate the child to continue to think creatively. It’s the very important thing to improve child creativity

Second, give support to them. Parents should support the child creativity desire as long as it better for him. Give the freedom to decide what to do and encourage children to achieve that creativity without forcing him to reach. For example that your child hobby is drawing and he wants to join the drawing contest at his school, do support their creativity, even if he can’t paint well. Although he does not able to win the contest but the child will continue to strive to be more creative because he knows that their parent support their creativity. This is the second important thing to improve child creativity

Third, provide facilities that can hone child creativity. The facilities are intended among other things that can develop a children art soul such as paper, colored pencils, crayons, scissors, glue, and folding paper. It would be better if you provide a special room that provides facilities for children to act out their creativity ideas without fear of being scolded when he soiled himself. And parents do not have to worry about the mess in their house form their child creativity. This facilities support will accommodate the child creativity

Fourth, encourage child to new experiences. Spend some special time to take your child to a place that never been visited like a museum, zoo and recreational park. No need to wait for the end of year holidays for recreation, the weekend is also a good time to get new experiences. New things that will stimulate the imagination and child will be do more creative. This last tips isn’t the optional from those tips above, but it is the last good tips for improving your child creativity

Well, easy isn’t it? Children become creative and you are happy, that’s nice…

creative child will show if their parents always support them

This article is written by me [rosmaini chaniago] form my experiences for become a mother for at least 10 years, and this article is dedicated to my son, I will still writing many article about parent and son soon, so wait my next article..

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