What Your Son’s Love Habitude
Which is more important according to you: Parents who feel loved by their son or Children who feel loved by his parents?
If you are confused, please read the question above. If you’re observant, you’ll know that the more important is the second sentence that is the children who feel loved by his parents. but if the parents feel their son love them, the child not necessarily feel being loved isn’t it? But if children feel loved by his parents, parents certainly loved their children.
Strangely, the problems we found are often from because the children feel unloved, not accepted by his parents. But his parent’s always said that they really love his son.Sometimes you may ask yourself, then why does your son feel unloved? How could it happen like that? You must believe it, a case or something like this could happen and many things can happen to you. And in many cases, parents do not know what’s wrong with them and how to fix it.
You need to know that children with problems in life such as getting into fights, drugs, unconfident, can not socialize, easy to despair, not daring to try and many other child problems, the source is often because he does not feel being loved or accepted by the closest people especially their parents.
There are many problems that occur because of communication between parents and son is not well established. Ways and methods of good communication between parents and son is crucial for the development of the child, one of them is to understanding your son love habitude.
this picture shows how you son being loved and love his parents
That’s what often happens between parent and son who have a different love Habitude. They will not understand each other what they mean and ultimately only a short conversation, because each felt it was useless to talk, anyway they will not get it what they mean.
A Son’s love habitude is an appropriate means of communication with your son so that he really felt being loved. The key here is really because the child knows his parents love him but still they do not really feel being loved.
Ok, so now you want to know the love habitude is what is this? There are 5 habitude of love, each person has a dominant love habitude, while others love habitude just support this.
1. Physical Touch: physical touch such as hugs, kisses on the cheek, play that involves physical touch and others.
2. Supporting words: positive words and support your son.
3. Quality time: to do activities together with children without another person.
4. Prize: favorite gifts.
5. Services: serving the needs of children is important to him.
To more deeply about the kinds of language of love, I will explain this love language, one by one in more detail in my next blog.
When you know your child’s love habitude, you can communicate in accordance with the habitude of love and your child will really feel loved. Children who feel loved will enhance self esteem, confidence has increased, more cheerful children and their relationship with their parents far more qualified. Is it that all we want?
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